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Love languages assessment
Which of five love languages make you feel most cared for: words, time together, gifts, help or touch.
Before you begin
Think of a partner, or if you are single, of the people you are closest to. Say how much you agree with each statement. There are no right or wrong answers; go with your first instinct.
This assessment is for education and self-reflection. It is not a medical or psychological diagnosis.
How it works
- One question on the screen at a time. Choose the answer that fits you best.
- You can go back and change an answer at any point.
- Your answers are saved in this browser only, so you can stop and pick up later on the same device.
Where the questions come from
Original questions written for Happy Me, four for each of the five love languages. The five love languages are a popular idea about how people prefer to give and receive care. For a scientific view of it: Impett, E. A., Park, H. G., & Muise, A. (2024). Popular psychology through a scientific lens: Evaluating love languages from a relationship science perspective. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 33(2), 87-92.